When it comes to guys, what we females don’t know can hurt us – and them!

It might shock you to learn how much you’re affected by what you don’t know about guys.  Girls tend to take guys too much at face value.  When we do that, it’s easy to unknowingly sabotage a potential friendship with them before it has time to develop.  The truth is, there’s a whole lot more to guys than we see on the surface.  Guys are wonderfully complex.  They have a ton of secrets that shouldn’t be secret!

In all honesty guys want you to know these things.  It isn’t that they’re trying to keep secrets, but it’s not information that they are willing – or dare – to tell you.  Hey, guys dig girls and don’t want to offend them.

Sometimes, it simply doesn’t occur to them to talk about these issues with girls.  Guys admit they don’t even tell their own sisters this stuff – though girls need to know – and guys wish girls knew it.  Hmmm, it looks like we have a dilemma here, right?

Not anymore.  This book is loaded with their secrets.  And how did I find them out?  I’ve been surrounded by guys most of my life.  I grew up with four brothers, and lived to tell about it.  (I also have three sisters, which is why I survived.)

Now that I’m married, I still have four guys in my life – a fabulous hubby and three cool sons.  Between them and their friends, I’ve been hostess to a multitude of guys for over twenty years.  Needless to say, living in a guy’s world has meant a lot to me.  (For one thing, it means the toilet seat is never down.)

But what it really means is that I’ve discovered a lot of guys’ secrets!  Not just from the guys in our home but from lots of other guys too.  I’ve interviewed dozens of them, even talked to young men right off the street (with my husband’s approval).  And the guys have wholeheartedly given me the green light to share their secrets with you!

Not only are these secrets no longer going to be secret, but guys earnestly want you to find all this out.  What more could we ask?

Guys have their own way of thinking, which isn’t the way we females think.  That’s what this book is about – learning what guys really think…how they think…why they think it…how that influences what they do – and how it all affects you.  So keep reading, because the guys are really hoping you will!