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My name is Mary Beth Jones. My parents were married on December
30, 1963, at Christ Church in Pensacola, Florida. My dad is a
native Floridian, whereas my mom was born and raised by a born-again
Pentecostal mother in White Plains, New York. When she was a teenager, she
moved to Signal Mountain, Tennessee to live with her Aunt Corinne and
attend Girls Preparatory School in Chattanooga. It was while she
was a student at GPS that she met Dad on a blind date when she was
fifteen; he was seventeen at the time. Eight years later, after
graduating from Baylor University in Texas, she married my dad, and they
lived in Mississippi and Alabama. They did not have any children for
seven years, during which time both completed degrees at University of
Southern Mississippi. My older sister Cori (Kathleen Corinne) was
born when they lived in Birmingham, Alabama. I was born five years
later after they moved back to Tennessee. One day mom was sitting
at the dining room table talking to my grandma about having another
child (my older sister Cori was four years old at the time). She
said, flippantly, “If we have another girl, we want to name her
Patty.” My dad happened to be walking up the stairs from the
basement at that moment, and out of his mouth popped, “We’re going
to have another baby; she will be a girl, and her name will be Mary
Elizabeth.” Wow! That’s me! :) Both mom and dad
said that when I came, they looked at me and knew I would be called
nothing but Mary Beth.
Months later, Mom received a vision of a little
girl, standing in a pool of bright light. Standing behind the
first little girl was another girl, barely visible in the shadow.
That was surprising foretelling of the birth of my sister Tricia, who is
fifteen months younger than I. When I was two years old, I
developed strabismus (wall eye), a condition inherited from my paternal
grandmother. When the Lord pushed mom into home schooling me
(for the reason of my eye condition and through the Lord's direction
through rhemas and proddings from friends), Tricia was right in
there with me, pouring over the Bible Nurture Readers and listening to
math fact records by the hour. Home schooling was still unfamiliar
and untried in most states at that time. Tennessee had no
homeschooling laws at the time, so we stayed inside during the day, not
answering phone calls or the front door. I think only the Tidy
Didy (diaper service) man knew we were there! I loved school and
was very methodical in my studies. Tricia and I have always been
best buddies- getting into mischief together and getting each
other in trouble. She even remembers my conning her into eating a
mud pie we made! :) We had pet rabbits (mine was Cottontail) and
Mama's Welsh corgi, Anna.
We had an idyllic
childhood. I can’t think of
how Mom and Dad could have made it any better. I remember many hours
playing in the playhouse and sandbox Dad built for us. My first
bike was a pink strawberry Shortcake bike with training wheels and a
basket up front. We loved to roller skate down our driveway,
giving mom quite a few scrapes and cuts to clean up since it was so
steep (cut into the backside of a mountain). We had a green 1968
VW bug which I loved, and a VW bus which we dubbed “The Brown
Cow.” We grew up without television, so by an early age we were
all avid readers and very imaginative children. Cori thought up
the most fabulous games, like grocery store in the garage, dolly hair
salon in the laundry room, and catalog store on the stairs. She
would design Bible story plays that we would put on every year for
Grandma when she came up from Florida for Christmas, the most memorable
one being the year I played Jezebel to Cori’s Elijah the
Prophet. Cori was always in there with us, never treating us like
we were bothersome. That’s something that I always appreciated about
her as we were growing up! What great fun we had, playing Sunshine
family, Lincoln logs and dollhouse. We had Mandie dolls, Carebears
mom sewed for us, and split all the good Strawberry Shortcake dolls
among the three of us. The only thing I regret during this
time is that one day when I was five or six, I took Cori’s beautiful
tea set out to play and broke half of it; that was the beginning of some
very hard feelings!
By that time Daniel had come along. While
mom homeschooled us, he would play in the playroom, corralled in but
always squeezing out. I remember the year I seven, when Dad called
from the bookstore to say that Keith Green had been killed in a plane
crash. I laid on the floor beside the stereo speaker, listening to
the radio announcement and crying my heart out. Cori was learning
to cook by now; we had microwave brownies at least four times a week,
bless her heart! I remember the first time I cooked anything in
our new microwave. Dad had asked me to heat up his coffee for 15,
so I punched in fifteen minutes. About three minutes into it, I
started to smell something awful. The cup was melting! :) Dad
laughed and laughed; it was funny, even though I did not want to admit
it! As a child, I invented what I called a “peach” instead of
a kiss. It was a kind of open-mouthed pop on the cheek. I
was a very loving and tender-hearted child. Mom always said that I
was the softie in the family.
At this point, Dad owned a Christian bookstore,
The Grapevine. It was located in the local shopping center with
Loveman’s A & M Toy Store, CWF, and Kay Castle, my favorite ice
cream parlor. I used to love going down and sneaking sugar lumps
from the coffee stand in the back. We were introduced to Precious
Moments figurines and all the current Christian music of the day, Keith
Green, Barry MacGuire, Don Franscisco, the Praise singers, and Dallas
Holms. Our favorite kiddie listening was countless hours of Psalty
records and Agapeland records. I remember the last week before we
sold our bookstore, I spent an entire day there, and Dad let me pick out
at least a half dozen things from the shelves.
We attended a home church when I was little, meeting in different homes, always
rotating. The ladies were awesome cooks, and mom was learning
to cook from them…double benefits! :) I remember the Gills
(Uncle Buck & Aunt Nancy), the Bowmans (Mr. Bob gave us candy), the
Gibbs, the Jennings, the Queens, the Coopers ( I loved their daughter
Stephanie), and the Carrols. Cay Carrol was my favorite teenage
girl in all the world at that time. She was our babysitter, and we
loved her dearly. Later on there were more families, but
they were the ones I remember the most. The ministry of the
fellowship started primarily as a ministry to young guys coming out of
the hippie movement/drug culture. Most of them were strung out on
LSD and had their brains fried. I remember several of them
vividly, Fred Williamson, my best friends for many years, Jimmy Cash who
gave me my first kiss on my fifth birthday (we both shared September the
14th), Mike Roach, Monk, Waller Tabb (who was baptized on a cold
November day), and Larry and Hoyt Condra who always made us laugh.
Several of the guys wrote Scripture songs that I still love today; I
remember following Fred as he careened around the living room with his
guitar, strumming and singing at the top of his voice. As the fellowship
grew, we had several out-of-town speakers and ministers come
speak. One was Chris Johnson, who was the first person I had ever
seen eat catsup on his scrambled eggs! He was also the first Bible
teacher mom and dad had heard speak on the headcovering for believing
ladies. Then there was Charlie Brown; we visited his farm later on
and enjoyed our first ever horse rides.
Sarah was born in 1982. Mom and Dad had
decided to have a home birth, so it was just the two of them, since
there were no midwives in Tennessee at the time. Mom thought all
during her pregnancy that the baby was a boy, so we had picked the name
John Paul for the arrival (it is still one of her nick names!).
Surprise, surprise!!! Sarah Naomi was born on January 14, 1982,
and we were holding her a few moments afterwards. J What a
squashed red thing she was! And she slept a lot! Many of the
ladies and gents from our fellowship came and stayed with us during the
months mom was pregnant. I remember Betty Carrol’s Apple Brown
Betty, which we proudly named after her! Aunt Nancy always let us
help her in the kitchen, and I remember when the Jennings came to wish
Mom and baby well, Duane hoisted me onto his shoulders and I had to duck
to get through the door.
After we had left the fellowship, we stayed at
home for several years. It was during this time that I grew to
love the sacrament of communion. It became very sacred and
meaningful to me; I was eight years old at the time. We came to
know Mennonite Bishop Paul and Mary Landis of Rod & Staff publishers
in Crockett, Kentucky, and traveled up to stay with them for a short
while. Mom and Dad were actually thinking about moving there, but
they knew that because we were outsiders, we would never really be
accepted. After that we met the McIntyre’s in Dalton,
Georgia. We made several trips down to visit them over the next
several years. I loved Mrs. Pat who later died tragically; she was
great cook, and we still make several of her recipes. They had a
son Daniel that was my only “outside friend” during that time.
The company that Dad worked for at the time,
Concrete Forms, was beginning to go bankrupt. Since dad was a main
crew foreman, his job was one of the first to be eliminated. Then
our across the street neighbor took it upon herself to sell our house
for us! It had been on the market for a long while and suddenly,
we were without job and home. So the decision was made to move to
Florida with my paternal grandma. Mom did NOT want to do this,
since she could imagine dad hunting and fishing all day and never being
home!
So, we moved to Pensacola, which has been our home now for almsot tweny
years. Actually, it was very hard on us for the first several
years. We became so poor that we even had to sell our cars just to
buy food. We joined Liberty Church and moved to Lillian,
Alabama. The Wednesday night cell group that met at Richard and
Nita Parker’s house became a haven for us. Many times they would
buy us groceries to help make ends meet. Dad could not find any
work because he was “over-educated.” He began to do remodeling
and carpentry work, but it was hard going at the beginning. Then
the power company let a transformer go bad, and it began shorting out
all our major appliances. We lived on Peg’s Lane, right next to
Peg’s horses and donkey. She was deceased, but her husband kept
them for many years afterwards. We loved to feed them carrots and
listen to Applejack, the donkey, bray backwards. We ran wild in
Lillian. It was a safe place for us to get accustomed to our new
life. I learned to cook full meals, sewed my first dress, and met
many future missionary friends through our associations at
Liberty.
Early in my teens, my sisters and I began to
get involved in the children's ministries at Liberty. First I
worked in the Sunday AM nursery for several years. I was falsely
accused by an sad, crippled, old-maid who reported that I played too
roughly with the eighteen-month olds, so I was warned, watched, and
scrutinized for a time. After that I worked in the infant section,
and loved changing diapers. Nancy O’Brien was the nursery
director, and she really like me, so I have favor in high places!
J We three older Jones girls began to lead worship for the
Wednesday evening children's church and taught second grade boys' Sunday
School for several years. We loved Stand and Pat Stewart, the best
children’s ministers that we ever worked under. They were
creative and funny and serious when they needed to be. Mrs. Betty
Longino was in charge of the children’s ministry at that time.
She wasn’t sure how to handle us Jones girls, being so young (I was
thirteen when I started). I did all the bulletin boards in the
children’s building, and that was a first creative outlet for
me! I joined Liberty as a member the year I was thirteen; I went
through the membership classes and proudly became the only teenage
member out of my class. I know Pastor John was shaking his head.
J After Liberty had a painful split the following year, the events
of which I will never forget, our family left for a brief respite from
strife. We worked for eight months with an inner-city ministry
associated with Liberty, Inner City Ministries of Pensacola, holding
Bible clubs, literacy classes, and outreach into government welfare
projects. I had my first crush on a nice boy that I met there.
J I also went on Weight Watchers for the first time and was very
successful in losing weight!
After that we went back to Liberty for a time,
and we girls volunteered for all the children’s ministries that went
on, even more so when Liberty got a new pastor that we didn’t
like. When it became too unbearable for Mom and Dad top stay, we
spend several months at Cornerstone Church. We wanted to find a
family-oriented church where we could become integrally a part. We
found Charity Chapel, pastured by Michael Collins, one of the sweetest
guys I have ever known. At age fourteen, I studied for and became
a certified sponsor in the Missionettes program at. I taught the
K-2nd grade Daisies class for two years. My family became very
involved in the leadership of the Missionettes Club, seeing a growth in
membership from 15 girls to 75 during the time we were there. We
expanded into a new education wing and added classes as we needed
them. From ages 14 to 20 I was also a leader/teacher in the AWANA
Club at the Campus Church of Pensacola Christian College. My
duties during that time were to be in charge of three little girls,
listening to their Scripture memory, sometimes teaching them their
verses, and teaching stories during Counsel Time. I remember my
first time to teach a Bible story; there were 150 or so people and my
knees were literally knocking under my skirt! J I also
volunteered when they had special events, such as the Olympics and the
Grand Prix. Those were really fun days.
Cori had become a student at Pensacola
Christian College during this time, so I was able to play my violin in
the PCC Symphony Orchestra. Both of us had begun to teach several
violin students. In 1991 we went to our first Basic Seminar by
IBLP. Then our friends, the Thompsons, introduced us to ATIA, the
Advanced Training Institute of America. In my sophomore year of
high school, my family joined the ATIA homeschool program. Cori
and I were asked early on to be Family Consultants in our tri-county
area. We were also able to travel to Chicago (Oak Brook) several
times to volunteer our services in their shipping department. I
graduated from high school in 1994 with a 3.95 GPA. After
graduating, my parents decided that they did not want me to go to
college at that time. My sister Cori and I started a sewing
business, making headcoverings and patterns for ladies all over the
country. Then Gentle Spirit magazine ran an ad unbeknownst
to us, and our cottage industry bloomed and blossomed into a full
catalogue business. We were soon processing between twenty-five
and fifty orders a week, so we were very busy for a long while. We
expanded our line of caps and scarves, Cori designing the, and me
drawing pictures and designing patterns. She did all the computer
and business, while I did the sewing of custom-made veils. In 1993
Mom had a stroke (or what the doctors deemed was either a stroke or
brain tumor). It all started when she stood up one morning to kiss
Dad goodbye and passed out in his arms. It was so scary!
Slowly after that she lost function of the right side of her body:
slurred speech, confined to a wheelchair, and loss of writing
abilities. We had her anointed with oil and prayed for by the
church elders, believing that God would heal her. In time she
regained all of her losses back, but we changed out diet after
that. Kathy Thomson sold om her first grain mill and Bosch Kitchen
machine. Our life was changed forever! Mom and Dad were soon
asked by the regional distributor to start selling these machines in the
area. They also started bringing in bulk grain during this
time. We called our business EduCare Natural Foods and ran it out
of a room in our house. We began teaching monthly nutrition and
bread baking classes and ended up having hundreds and thousands of local
folks come through our kitchen, learning how to make nutritious whole
grain breads, why it was good for them and where to get their baking
supplies!
Then I added to my repertoire and became a
nanny at age eighteen. The Gygax family were a Navy family,
stationed in Pensacola for two years, during which time I did what I
loved to do: teach. Bob, Mary Kate, Ben, Sara Beth were so
adorable. I really loved those kids; they became like a second family,
since their ages picked up where ours left off. I taught Mary Kate
sewing classes, then crocheting, quilting, and cross-stitching. My
sister Tricia and I served as their nannies during the pregnancy of the
fifth Gygax baby, Bram. Shortly after that, they moved to north Alabama,
and I orchestrated our home for several months while Cori was in Dallas
on staff at The Dallas Training Center. Then I moved to
Indianapolis, Indiana at the end of January 1996.
And so the Indy saga began! My sister,
Tricia, has always had a calling to teenagers; I preferred working with
younger kids. So when she decided that she wanted to work in a
juvenile rehabilitation center, my parents sent me along with her
according to Jesus' instructions to the disciples as they went forth
into ministry. I did not want to go. I had no interest in
teenagers, especially troubled ones. I now see that the year I
spent at the Indianapolis Training Center was one of the most formative
training times I have ever experienced. My sister and I were well
respected at ITC; therefore, we were chosen as the first trainers out of
our group, Equip II, to be placed with a court appointed juvenile
offender. I spent five months with fourteen year-old Ka-Nova,
having several other co-trainers after Tricia was selected to be a
lead-trainer of another juvenile. She was a black girl from
Detroit Michigan. She had a white mother who had insisted that the
judge place her at ITC for molestation, drug
abuse, and prostitution. We worked closely with probation
officers, often visiting court and observing judicial proceedings.
After Ka-Nova left ITC; she disappeared and is now on the missing
persons listing. I began to feel a burden for teenagers while
working at ITC, seeing so many of them turn to God in their time of
need, even though they had hard lives and many obstacles to
overcome. I also experienced the devastation of sin and the
ravaged lives that it left in its wake. I received fourteen
year-old Michelle from Wisconsin next. She was certainly a
challenge for me; she has been raised by a family who was deep into a
cult, I received her after another trainer had begun her rehabilitation;
from counseling sessions with the Center's counselor, Pastor Rueben
Fields, I learned that she was given over to lust, had used being a good
girl as a camouflage, and had demonic interference. During a
Scripture devotion one night, I encountered a demonic
manifestation. I did not cast the demons out, since the girl had
given ground to Satan purposefully and was not willing to give up her
pet sins. There were five demons; I talked to them a while and by
the power of Jesus in me was quite calm. After I graduated from
the one-year (1996) Equip program, I came back home, settling into a much
quieter life for a time. I went back to work with my sisters in the
sewing business, which by then was growing very fast. Looking back
on that year, I realize that it was one of the most formative years in
my ministry training. I am much the same person now that I was after
that year at ITC than I was before. The ministry skills, the
training to stand for what is right, the training in boldness (not being
afraid to speak out), learning how to counsel from the Word like Pastor
Fields, and learning how to deal with hard situations (an especially
difficult assistant leader, a court-appointed roommate who tried to
commit suicide)- these things taught me so much in preparation for what
I do now.
In the fall of 1997, my mother was no longer
able to continue tutoring several students whom she was teaching how to
read. She asked me if I would like to try it. I said
yes. And so I began tutoring; the first year I had five students,
and the second I had eight. By the time I was 24, I had fifteen
students. Some were one-hour tutoring lessons, and some were day
students. I was teaching everything from phonics and reading to
handwriting, English grammar, basic mathematics, pre-algebra, Algebra I,
and more. Some of my students were home schooled, and some were
from local public and private schools. I am able to do quite a bit
of discipleship during my tutoring lessons. I constantly ask the
Lord for opportunities to share His truth.
Then a friend of my mother's became ill with a
brain tumor. She and her husband had previously started a 617
private school covering for home schoolers and were not going to be able
to continue its oversight due to her illness. Would we be
interested? My parents had been approached by the Chairman of the
Florida Coalition of Christian Private Schools Association (FCCPSA) back
in the early nineties about started such a school in the Florida
panhandle area, but they had decided that raising five children and
getting them educated was enough to keep them busy. When the
opportunity came a second time, we accepted. A 617 non-profit
school is a non-public school that works with home educating families to
legitimize their program; it is one of three ways of home schooling
legally in Florida. Assuming the leadership of the Christian
Institute of Arts & Sciences, we quickly legitimized the school,
raising the standards for enrollment and graduation. We
incorporated with the department of state; we filed for sales-tax
exemption and federal tax exemption and received them. We also
completed an audit and were reviewed by an accrediting
board. We received accreditation by FCCPSA in May of
2001. As my role at CIAS changed, I started out as the Secretary
& Records Clerk, and am now the Vice-Principal. When we
assumed responsibility for the school, we had twenty students enrolled;
we now have 130 students enrolled in grades K-12. Out of the
twelve graduates last year, nine earned college scholarships, and eleven
went on to college or university studies. Many of our students
dual-enroll at local community colleges and earn associates degrees
while earning high school credits. We orchestrate classes,
meetings, socials, and graduation exercises. I am in charge of the
Records Office, and serve as a high school academic counselor. We also
hold tutoring lessons on Monday through Thursday, during which time I
have six to seven students per day; I also teach a seven-unit home
economics course to high school girls. I hold office hours on
Friday, and I work part-time on the weekends at my family's bakery, the
Bread of Life Bake Shop. A bakery? Let me tell you how that
started.
In 1998 EduCare was getting too big to stay in
the house, so Mom began to look for store space elsewhere, and the Lord
led us to Osceola Plaza, right down the street from our house! We
were there a year before the Y2K scare hit the nation. Needless to
say, we spent a health-breaking year, unloading countless
semi-truckloads of grains and supplies and stocking and servicing the
panhandle area. I don’t think we kids ever foresaw how much
EduCare would grow back in those early days. In 2000, we
turned a corner and invested our capital in bakery equipment. Thus
the Bread of Life Bake Shop was born! I am the inflexible person
in the family, and always resist new things. I was having a hard
time accepting this change, knowing that much of the responsibility
would fall on my shoulders in the areas of baking and cake making.
One night while Cori and I were working late, I opened a Twila Paris CD
and on the inside cover was a verse that spoke right to the both of us.
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We are now in our fifth year as a full-line
bakery. Dad does all the bread baking and does the specialty breads,
muffins, and rolls. Our top selling goodies are our signature
all-natural nutrition cookies, macadamia white chocolate cookies,
morning glory muffins, Cranberry Pecan Bread, Cinnamon Swirl Bread,
German Stollen Bread, Mississippi Mud and Heath brownies, and petit
fours. It takes all six of us (Dad, us four girls, and employee
Marisa) baking to keep up with the demand and supply. We four
Jones girls work at odd hours- early in the morning, late at night, and
on the weekends. Cori & I have been especially busy with
wedding cakes. If I do say so myself, we do some of the most
fabulous cakes in town! Cori does all the planning, finding all
the supplies and does all the gorgeous decorating for which we are
becoming famous in the area. I do the cake preparation, icing,
setup engineering, and floral arrangements. Due to meticulous
planning and the Lord’s blessing, we have never had a delivery
disaster! Over the 2004 New Year, we remodeled the bakery, adding
Old World Italian tile flooring, painting the walls a warm golden
yellow, and adding a new display case. Running the bakery has
caused many hard times in our family, I have to say. With all of us
working there, at times it gets heated and sparks fly- many fights and
arguments, much stress and health problems. But overall it is
worth it; I wouldn’t want to be doing anything else! When you
know you are in the middle of God’s will, resting in that takes the
long-term frustration and bitterness out of difficult situations.
There are some days that I come home and I can’t step another step or
move another limb. The work is so exhausting but the Lord bears me
up (especially when I am taking my vitamins and eating well!).
My brother Daniel is an EMT with Escambia County and is a volunteer
fireman at the Ferry Pass Station 7. He attends Jefferson Davis
Community College and lives across town. He is not walking with
the Lord right now, something which is very painful to our tight-knit
family. Please pray that God’s will be done in Daniel’s life!
Here are some Scripture verses that have become
meaningful over this past year, even as God gives fresh manna every day,
verses that have guided my life and helped me to guard my heart and stay
vigilant as a Christian.



My life has been blessed. I know
it. I look around at others and thank God for the life He has
given to me. Someday, I want to marry and have a family of my
own. But that time will come in His time. In the meantime, I
am going to be content, stay busy, work hard, and love the family He has
given me at present!
I am a softie, but at the same time inflexible
and stubborn. My spiritual gifts are exhortation and mercy, my
ministry gift is teaching. I am melancholic/sanguine- quite a
confused mixture. At times I am the most optimistic person in the
family, at others I am the most hesitant to concede. My love
languages are encouraging words (giving) and quality time (receiving).
My life verse is Psalm 24:7,”One thing I have
asked the Lord, and that I may seek. That I may dwell in the house
of the Lord all the day s of my life, to behold the beauty of the Lord,
and to inquire in His temple.” My favorite pastime is reading
the Word; I crave it so much! It is my sustenance for
living! My favorite translations are the Living Bible, the New King
James, and J. B. Phillip’s New Testament. My favorite devotional
writers are Oswald Chambers, Amy Carmichael, Elisabeth Elliot, and
Elizabeth George. My name means “Expression of Worship” so I
am most often found singing or listening to the radio or one of my
favorite CD’s. It is my life purpose: to worship God and
enjoy Him forever!

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